ELOPE BENDIGO!

Celebrant + Photographer package $1100

Do you want to marry the love of your life without a massive fanfare and expense? Have you always dreamt of eloping in a beautiful location with just your two besties as witnesses?  Do you hate the spotlight but want an intimate, meaningful, unhurried celebration with stunning photos to remember always?

I am delighted to announce that I have partnered with the wonderfully creative and talented Bendigo photographer, Jess White, for this very special offer that includes complete celebrant + photographer package for just $1100.  It is for an elopement, with two witnesses only or micro wedding with up to 20 guests.

You can get married on a mountaintop, in a secret bush location, by a river, in a beautiful garden or perhaps in your own backyard or at a luxury B&B.  We have lots of local knowledge about the best places around Bendigo to elope, where it is private, romantic and unhurried.

Travel within 10 kilometres of Bendigo PO is included (for venues further afield, there will be an additional travel fee).

 (Not usually available Saturday afternoons during peak wedding season)

CELEBRANCY INCLUSIONS

• All legal paperwork taken care of professionally and promptly (one month’s notice of your intention to marry must be given to your celebrant)

• A beautiful ceremony of about 10-12 minutes, that is written for you

• Help with writing your own vows, if required

• Suggestions for making your elopement ceremony more than just ‘minimum legal wording’

• A decorative marriage certificate presented to you on your wedding day

• I can apply for your official marriage certificate from Melbourne Births, Deaths & Marriages on your behalf for an additional fee

PHOTOGRAPHY INCLUSIONS

• One hour of professional photography at the location of the ceremony. This will include some candid photos of your ceremony, some couple portraits and some group photos

• 50 professionally edited photographs in colour and black and white delivered via an online gallery 

• Options to upgrade exist.  Why not purchase another hour of photography to capture some of the getting ready, or perhaps the celebration after you are married? There is also the option to purchase a wedding album that is printed on the best quality paper, flat lay and fabric or leather bound. 

AND THERE’S MORE!

Both being Bendigo locals who have worked on many, many weddings, we can offer suggestions about other services you may require such as hair and make-up, videography, florals, accommodation, restaurant suggestions, catering etc.  All you need to do is ask us!

And of course, we know some fabulous secret locations to elope; hilltops to forest glades, riverbanks to historic sites!

Thanks to Lou Firili for this image of us!

All other photos taken by Jess White

Book it!

0418 375 518

HOW TO CHOOSE A MARRIAGE CELEBRANT

It doesn’t really matter what celebrant you get to marry you – they all do the same thing, right?  WRONG! This is the thinking that drives couples to choose a celebrant on price alone.  Your celebrant is already one of the cheapest items in your wedding budget and here are some reasons to find the celebrant that you feel a connection with, who can bring your ceremony dreams to life.

Sure, all celebrants know the legalities of marriage and how to sign off on them, but a really good celebrant will add so much to your ceremony and wedding day.  They will get the party started, get the love vibe happening, have your guests laughing and crying and immersed in the moment (and not longingly glancing sideways at the bar!).

Finding a celebrant that’s right for you can be one of the hardest decisions you have to make when planning your wedding.  Celebrants offer an intangible service that can’t be held or seen beforehand, unless you have watched someone in action at another wedding that you loved! You can try on dresses, suits, and shoes.  You can thoroughly research photographers’ and videographers’ portfolios online.  You can visit venues, view cakes and flowers and taste menus, but how do you know what celebrant to choose from the vast array out there?

We’ve all been to weddings where the same old verses and generic words are rolled out.  We sit there politely, hoping there will be something exciting in the wedding vows to engage us! Wedding ceremonies can be so much better than this.

Here are my thoughts about refining the process and finding the right celebrant for you:

1.       Ask around.  Recommendations from family, friends and work colleagues can be good and we all do this, especially in a regional city.  Another source is wedding photographers and videographers who have seen many celebrants in action and know the vibe they bring.  Event managers at venues will often have suggestions about celebrants too, but remember that the final choice is always yours. 

2.       Read reviews.  Reviews can be found in many places – Facebook, Google, websites and wedding directories.  How many reviews are there?  Are there recurring themes in reviews that appeal to you?  Do they seem genuine? Are there photos of the ‘reviewers’?

3.       Stalk social media (but never in a creepy way!).  How someone presents themselves on social media tells you a lot about them.  What do they look like when they are working?  How many couples do they marry? What sort of couples do they mostly work with?  Do they have creative ideas?  Do they offer advice and helpful hints about wedding planning?  What do they say on social media?  Pay attention to this last point, as a good celebrant is a writer and a storyteller.  If you like their writing style, chances are you’ll like how they will write your love story.

4.       Look at their website.  This is also an important tip to let you know about how seriously a celebrant takes their role and whether it is their profession or a weekend hobby.  Do they have a modern, professional website that is pleasing to the eye and contains a useful amount of information?  Or is it obviously a home made freebie with not much information or conversely, way too much irrelevant (and boring) information?  An investment in a decent website usually means that the celebrant has more than a passing interest in doing the occasional wedding for a family member once or twice a year. 

5.       Once you have done the preliminary work and narrowed your list down to two or three, call them up for a chat on the phone.  You may decide here that you don’t want to take it any further or that yes, they are the one! One thing that I know about celebrants is that they are all easy to talk to.  Celebrants love meeting new people so chatting is never awkward. 

6.       A face to face meeting is the next step and it is here that you will know who to choose.  If you have done all of the above, the last step is finding someone you both connect with, who listens to you and takes your ideas on board and who you can trust with your wedding ceremony.  If they connect with you, it is likely they will connect with your family and friends too.  Enjoying hanging out together is also important as you spend quite a lot of time in each other’s company taking care of the legals and planning your ceremony together - ceremony planning should be fun!

7.       I can’t stress enough to book your celebrant early (as soon as you have a date) as good celebrants book out quickly in popular months.  You will always be able to find someone to marry you, but you may miss out on the magic that a great celebrant can bring to your day.  I want your ceremony to be a highlight of your wedding for both you and your guests.  In the back of my mind, I always keep a Maya Angelou quote: “I’ve learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel”. 

Good luck with your searching! Sue x

Thanks to Wild Romantic Photography for the main image.

LOVE IN THE TIME OF COVID-19: 7 REASONS TO GET MARRIED

I couldn’t resist basing my Blog title on the glorious novel by Gabriel Garcia Marquez, “Love in the Time of Cholera”.  Love (and marriage) are definitely not cancelled during Covid-19!

There has been lots written about what to do about postponing your wedding and about five person weddings, but I’ve come up with some positive reasons to get married during the global pandemic!

1. REGAIN CONTROL OF YOUR OWN WEDDING

You may have started wedding planning and quickly realised that absolutely everyone, from your next door neighbour to your receptionist at work, has advice to give; you must have a videographer, hens’/bucks’ party, wedding favours, specially crafted “Will you be my ring-bearer cards?” (plus gift, of course) and it goes on and on.  Getting married now means that you can avoid all the advice and do what you want for your five person wedding.  You may still get dressed up if you choose, have flowers or not, have a photographer/videographer (if you have both, they need to double as your two witnesses), write your own vows, have wedding rings etc.

2. MARRY LEGALLY NOW, PARTY LATER

Have the simplest “Legals Only” ceremony to be legally married now, then party in whatever way you choose when this crisis is over - big reception venue type celebration or a barbeque in your backyard with everything else except the legal parts of your ceremony.  Consider holding it on your first anniversary.

3. WEAR YOUR WEDDING DRESS TWICE

For both the Legals Only Ceremony now and your Commitment Ceremony further down the track.  This has to be a bonus!

4. SUPPORT WEDDING VENDORS NOW

We all know that many businesses are doing it tough right now with little (or zero) money coming in through the door.  Some may not even survive until Covid-19 is a distant memory.  Postponing your big wedding will mean you have time to save up for some things you had previously discounted, such as a videographer (see my Friends list on my website for awesome suggestions).  If you have a five person wedding now, have a videographer and photographer there to capture it (and be witnesses), give them some business, stop fights among which 2 family or friends you’ll bring along and then show the video and display your wedding album at your big party later.  It’s a win all round!

5. SAVE MONEY (OBVIOUSLY!)

In times of economic uncertainty, a big wedding may not seem as desirable anymore.  Save masses on a pared back ceremony (while still making it very much your own) and plan to use the money saved towards a deposit for a house, or a romantic overseas honeymoon next year when we can all travel again.

6. HAVE A GREAT STORY TO TELL

In years to come when your children and grandchildren ask, “What did you do during the Covid-19 pandemic of 2020?”, you’ll have the best answer ever – “We got married!”

7. TIME TO USE A GREAT QUOTE IN YOUR WEDDING CEREMONY

And lastly, to get back to where I started, it would be the perfect time to use a quote from Gabriel Garcia Marquez in your ceremony:

“It was the time when they loved each other best, without hurry or excess, when both were most conscious of and grateful for their incredible victories over adversity”.

- Love in the Time of Cholera

Much love – stay safe, stay home, Sue X